Last night I worked on my poncho (Lion Brand Split Collar Poncho in black TLC Amore). I somewhat successfully seamed up one side and then picked up stitches for the collar. It was late, I was tired and wasn't feeling good and a new Law & Order SVU was on, so I don't really think it was my fault that it wasn't until I had knit the requisite four inches of collar that I realized I had only picked up stitches for half the collar. So I had to frog it and start over and let me tell you, knitting twice the number of stitches takes more that twice as long when it's past your bedtime.
The reason why I finally decided to work on my poncho again is because I am considering frogging my secret knitting project. I love the pattern, I love Silk Garden, I'm just not sure if I love them together. So, we'll see.
Finally, Jess, I love your post, I cried reading it and then cried again last night when I told Jason about it. People amaze me, what a wonderful messed up world we live in.